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A Tribute to the Incredible Women of the South

March 26, 2023 by Carrie Sprys

   

In 1980, President Jimmy Carter declared by a presidential proclamation that March 2-8 should be henceforth “Women’s History Week,” releasing the following statement: “Too often, the women were unsung, and sometimes their contributions went unnoticed,” he wrote. “But the achievements, leadership, courage, strength, and love of the women who built America were as vital as that of the men whose names we know so well.” Today, a presidential proclamation annually designates the month of March as a time to reflect and honor American women’s achievements, both in the home and workforce, for the roles they play in communities across the nation.

Southern women are historically presented as simply an idealized version of a character whose virtues are unmatched. Historically, one must be a warm, enchanting, polite, respectful, well-kept, good cook, community leader, and church attender. Yet, their speech, appearance, social habits, and overall demeanor create a distinction among women that defines their behaviors as concretely Southern. Do they resemble Margaret Mitchell’s enduring characters, Scarlett O’Hara or Melanie Wilkes? Perhaps Fanny Flag’s indomitable Idgie Threadgood or Kathryn Stockett’s Minny Jackson?

But why place the burden of living on a pedestal directly on the shoulders of these Southern women? Because they distinctively carry the past with them wherever they go. Trying to connect the antebellum “Southern Belle” mentality with the reality of modern women is almost impossible. It is an extreme level of contradiction that, when you think about it, perfectly defines a Southern woman. They are strong yet tender, kind but firm, and friendly yet fierce.

From small towns to large cities, Southern women have persevered. They’ve earned the right to vote, lead, and challenge the status quo. They know how equally difficult it is to advance a career or raise a family. Many do both. Reba McIntyre said it best, “A backbone is required to be successful in this life, along with a wishbone and a funny bone.”

Southern women feed families and souls while trying to maintain their sense of self. They’re the caretakers and the memory makers of a culture looking to them for direction. They inspire change and confidence in the next generation and attempt to balance their fear of failure with their dreams of greatness. And they do indeed succeed.

Many notable women are famous and successful, and their names and faces are recognizable. They’ve worked hard to get where they are today and should be honored. Let’s briefly pay homage to some of the South’s most incredible women, past and present, whose names are synonymous with their fields of study.

Carla Hayden

Dr. Carla Hayden, from Tallahassee, Florida, is the first African American Female Librarian of Congress. Her primary goal is to protect libraries as a space where learning and knowledge are available to everyone.

Christina Koch

Christina Hammock Koch, from Jacksonville, North Carolina, is an engineer and Astronaut for NASA (National Aeronautics and Space Administration). She was a member of the first all-female spacewalk crew.

Katherine Johnson

Katherine Johnson hails from White Sulpher Spring, West Virginia. She was one of the first African American women mathematicians for NASA. Her primary focus was calculating trajectories and launch windows for Project Mercury and the Apollo missions. She also supported the efforts that launched Alan Shephard and John Glenn into space.

Eudora Welty

Eudora Welty was a Jackson, Mississippi, native and short story writer. She won the Pulitzer Prize in 1973 for The Optimist’s Daughter, was a charter member of the Fellowship of Southern Writers, and received the Presidential Medal of Freedom.

Condoleezza Rice

Condoleeza Rice is originally from Birmingham, Alabama. She served as National Security Adviser from 2001-2005 and Secretary of State from 2005-2009. In addition, Rice held the positions of Provost and Professor at Stanford University and is currently a part-owner of the Denver Broncos NFL team.

Dolly Parton, from Sevierville, Tennessee, is a singer, songwriter, actress, businesswoman, and philanthropist. She has composed over 3,000 songs, won 11 Grammys, was inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame and the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, and runs The Dollywood Company. In addition, her Imagination Library has placed over 1 million books into the hands of children under the age of 5 worldwide.

Ann Lowe grew up in Clayton, Alabama, in a family of seamstresses. After attending S.T.Taylor Design School in New York City, Lowe opened fashion salons in Tampa, Florida, and New York City. She designed for Saks Fifth Avenue, Neiman Marcus, the Academy Awards, and most famously, the wedding gown for First Lady Jackie Bouvier Kennedy.

You may have heard the quaint descriptions of Southern women on your television or read them in a novel. GRITS (Girls Raised in The South). Steel Magnolia. Whiskey in a Teacup. Petticoats and Pearls. But again, these create merely caricatures of the lives of strong, intelligent, resilient people who leave their marks in every corner of American society. Take a moment and think about the most influential women in your life. Is it a family member? Friend? Teacher? Co-worker? Then pause and consider what makes these particular women stand out.

I am proud to be a Southern lady. It informs everything I do and each decision I make. Yet, there is a strength and depth to women from the Southeastern United States, forged through good and bad life experiences and refined with each challenge they meet. And while we look to well-known names and faces concerning progress, the women who had a tremendous influence on my life did not live in the spotlight or receive accolades.

My grandmothers provided examples of how to survive the worst of times, such as the Great Depression, World Wars, failed crops, illness, and loss, with their dignity intact. I credit my love for reading to my mother and the two women who drove the bookmobile in my rural community. My mother introduced books into my world at a young age, and Ms. Joyce and Ms. Wynell fostered that love in the summers when their large “book bus” would roll into our small community. My dance teachers, Ms. Syd and Ms. Leslie, demonstrated poise and grace, and my piano teacher, Ms. Gloria, never allowed me to give up when I found the music challenging. In college, Dr. Alice Taylor-Colbert was the shining example in the history field that I wanted to emulate. She was competent, and she truly loved her work.

When I lacked the confidence to embark upon a writing career, the OSRBC Writing Group provided the initial support and guidance I needed to take the first shaky step. In addition, Mary Kay Andrews, Laurie Benson, Heather Graham, Jan Karon, Carla Kelly, Maida Malby, Eva Moore, and Cate Conte/Liz Mugavero set examples in fiction, romance, mystery, and suspense genres that motivate not only me but impact the lives of thousands of women whose goals are to be writers. These women writers have encouraged me, and I have followed their careers and read their work with enormous admiration.

In closing, please do not associate daintiness, fainting couches, and smelling salts with modern Southern women during Women’s History Month. We have earned our place in American history by forging new paths for later generations to walk and by removing obstacles before us so we and future generations would have the chance to succeed.

Sources:

Hernandez, Joe. “Women’s History Month.” NPR, 2 Mar. 2023, www.npr.org/2023/03/02/1160430549/womens-history-month-grew-out-of-a-weeklong-commemoration-by-jimmy-carter-in-198.

Hayden, Dr. Carla. https://womenshistorymonth.gov/images/

Koch, Christina Hammock. https://www.nasa.gov/astronauts/biographies/christina-hammock-koch/biography

Johnson, Katherine. https://www.nasa.gov/content/katherine-johnson-biography

Welty, Eudora.  https://eudorawelty.org/biography/

Rice, Condoleeza. https://history.state.gov/departmenthistory/people/rice-condoleezza

Parton, Dolly. https://dollyparton.com/

Lowe, Ann.  https://nmaahc.si.edu/biography/ann-lowe

Andrews, Mary Kay. https://marykayandrews.com/

Benson, Laurie.  https://lauriebenson.net/

Graham, Heather. https://www.theoriginalheathergraham.com/

Karon, Jan. http://www.mitfordbooks.com/

Kelly, Carla. https://carlakellyauthor.com/

Malby, Maida. https://maidamalby.com/

Moore, Eva.  https://www.4evamoore.com/

Cate Conte/Liz Mugavero.  https://cateconte.com/

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